The Code

Community guidelines

A warm, honest space for women writing their next chapter. Three small promises hold the room.

1. 1. Lead with kindness.

   Disagree, debate, push back, gently. We don't pile on. We don't moralise. We give each other the most generous reading.

2. 2. Tell the truth, carefully.

   Honesty is the price of intimacy. So is care. Speak from your own experience, not at someone else's. Use content notes when you need to.

3. 3. Keep us safe.

   No harassment, no hate, no doxxing, no selling. Don't share anyone's story or details without permission. Use Block and Report, we read every one.

Your privacy is yours: you choose what to show in the directory, who can message you, and how precise your location is, Hidden, City/Region or Exact. Change it anytime in your profile.

Version 1.0 — 31 July 2026